Today i read an article from a fellow blogger about relationships and why men cheat and it kept me thinking...ok that must have been her thinking from where she stood.yes i tend to agree to most things but not to everything;just to highlight on a few things;
1st she pointed out that he cheats becouse you are fat - i have seen and met men who are marely turned on with a little flesh here and there.Especially in the african settings you will find that most men that cheat leave there slim wives at home and cheat on baby hippos as she calls them so matter of size does not necerallily apply according to me.
2nd she mentioned ladies who are idle and nagging- well this i so tend to agree with her;my take is that why you keep on nagging your husband is becourse you are idle and yes you should find ways on how to keep your self busy very busy,make friends or start up a business for pits sake do something!
3rd she mentioned the wife or the spouse in this matter not having a a sense of fashion - and yes every man wants to walk around with a good looking woman i guess its to sooth there egos or something only men can let us in on what goes around there minds and bodies at that time.
4th she mentioned that you are lazy and boring - but i guess lazy is brought about by being idle but boring is a thing that you have to up...your boredom basically reflects to gretter legths more so even on closed doors.one time i was listening to a preacher that i love and respect so much and she said you have to be everything for him 1.The wife he wants to be seen around with - respectable,calm,looking nice,smilling 2.A mother to his children - a woman who cares about his children and guards them with her own life 3.A girlfried - someone he can take away anytime for a weekend,away from the husles of the city 4.His whore -someone who can come up with creative ideas behind closed doors,someone who can darer handcuff him down dressing like a cop or a very sexy nurse with a whip (you get the picture?)Dare exite him and you will see that he will crave to come home early or once in a while elope with you to unknown destinations...or once in a while send away the children and there nunny to go and look for an yellow water melon and not to come back without it and by the time they are on there fifth supermarket having realized there is no such thing like a yellow watermelon well business at home is done.Be creative!
Although i have met men who are basically into cheatting;i have seen men who cheat with someone lower than there spouses regadless,there blood will start rushing from the moment they meet that waitress,receptionist,shop attendant and even the lady who delivers pitzza.
At times its not a matter of all this pointers some men are born cheats.
Last Sunday, the Lord woke me up at 4am. After spending some quiet time with Him, I stepped out of bed at exactly 5:30 am. Being a Sunday, there’s usually a lot on my plate. Then suddenly, I remembered that there was supposed to be a video shoot in my house that day—something that had completely slipped my mind. As I prepared my cup of coffee, the Holy Spirit nudged me to pick up my Bible and spend more time with Him. I could sense the Lord was longing for my undivided attention. So, I opened my Bible and asked the Holy Spirit what He desired to teach me. He led me to Joshua 5. I began reading quietly, but soon felt prompted to read aloud. This chapter speaks of Joshua circumcising an entire new generation of Israel with flint knives. I paused and asked, “Lord, weren’t the male children supposed to be circumcised on the eighth day?” The Holy Spirit delights when we ask Him questions. It became a moment of fellowship between us. He then led me to Numbers 9, particularly verses 15–23, an...
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