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Pregnant Bride


Pregnant Bride
Hello sisters, its being a minute. Can we talk? Yes, I mean now!
Marriage is a good thing. Wedding is nice too. But when the bride's pregnant, When she walks down the aisle bearing a protruding belly. The marriage has been dishonored. And the bed? Defiled!
Then, its no longer 'joining in holy matrimony' It is called Thanksgiving celebration because the couple has already joined themselves. This is the common trend these days, I don't admire nor applaud it. Be the wife before you become a mother.
If your pastor didn't tell you, hear this now, Introduction is not wedding...
Engagement is not wedding...Dating and courtship isn’t a wedding. 'Will you marry me?' 'I will', is not wedding. 'His papa and mama already know me' is not wedding. Your fiancĂ©/fiancĂ©e is not your wife or husband. You don't own his or her body and can't demand for it!
Marriage is the ONLY license to sex...Make the marriage bed before you make babies. Stop proposing to a guy by getting pregnant for him. Girlfriend, you are not sugar, so no tasting! You hear me so?
He wants to know if you are good in bed, You are not a store sample...Tell Him that. He wants to know if you are fertile, You are not a lab rat. You come with a price, don't you? Some items come with nice packaging, and until their prices are paid, you cant open to see what's in it. A man who pressurizes you for sex because your wedding is days away will ruin your relationship with God. He's not worthy of you.
And finally, when sin blinds your eyes. You claim Love is blind the same way you accuse the devil for atrocities committed. God already set His standards. He is not negotiating with you.
#FleeFornication.
God will not ask you to fornicate or defile His temple. Beware of fake prophecies. I have heard stories of ladies who received such prophecies, 'be pregnant before wedding'. Watch it!
God cannot contradict Himself.
His Rhema can't oppose His Logos.
GET GOD FOR YOURSELF.
Those who know their God shall be strong and do exploits. Those who do not know their God shall be weak and be exploited.
The Anthem of hell is "EVERYONE IS DOING IT!"
DO YOU KNOW YOUR GOD?...


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