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It all takes motivation, at one point or the other we all need a buster. There those that get there renewed energy through seating in a dark room that has no noise, there those like me who will find solace in having some alone time,cool music in the background and serine surrounding , there those that find this moments at the beach at the calm of an ocean and of course there those who will find it by reading the bible and in prayer or simply others in a pub emptying down there bank accounts. Whatever makes you feel relaxed and in control once again is the most important aspect of your life . We all have gone through some down moments when nothing either doesn't seem to be working or everything seems to be going so wrong. At times all it takes is switching off our cell phones and having our moments with those that we so much love and appreciate and by the time we are done we feel as if we have been reborn. Our mind and thoughts are more clear, and we have been rejuvenated in ways th...

The hand that rocks the cradle is the hand that rules the world!

As for woman, wherever she goes and whatever her mission-for travel or for service-her native instincts draw her homewards. She may have unusual power and be distinguished for versatility; she may have artistic ability and attain distinction on the stage or in the studio; she may make bargains behind the counter or "be mighty in ledger and great upon Change"; she may serve as shop-girl, toil as fieldhand or in factory, be a typist, ticket agent; . . . she may skillfully wield the pen and prove a very magician in journalism and in the nobler literatures; she may possess great persuasive power in the pulpit or on the platform; she may display diplomatic ability in the lobby or cabinet; she may fill the professor's chair or preside over college or university; she may, like Joan of Arc, be the heroine of many a battlefield, or, like Victoria, reign with "all the royal makings of a queen"-but wherever a woman is, or whatever a woman does, she is at her best, ...

FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN

“Then you will know which way to go, since you have never been this way before.” Joshua 3:4a (NIV) Do you have a fear of the unknown?I know i do.If so, then you know how nerve-racking it can be. Fearing the unknown can cause us to live on pins and needles as we spend precious energy anticipating the worst-case scenario. There are two problems with this type of fear: 1. The future is not here. 2. The future is not ours. While the future may be out of our hands, it’s not out of the hands of an adequate and trustworthy God. When we face a worrisome unknown situation, we can look to Joshua as an example. It’s recorded in the first chapter of Joshua that before Moses died, God passed the baton of leadership to Joshua. The Israelites had been wandering in the desert for 40 years under the guidance of Moses. Now, their journey was almost over. Just beyond the Jordan River was their promised land—the land that God had guaranteed to Abraham and his descendants. Upon reaching the Jordan Riv...

Why Men Cheat 2

Like it or not men cheat. The percentage of men unfaithful to their wives is many folds than wives cheating on husbands. Whatever the case is men are less forgiving of their wife cheating than wives are about their cheating husbands. Overall, only about a third of marriages survive affairs as it is hard to forgive, redevelop trust and make the marriage more intimate and satisfying. Reasons for cheating in Men are more physical whereas for woman it is more on the emotional side. Many women mistakenly believe the mistress must be more attractive than she which is not true in majority of cases. Given below are some reasons why Men may cheat on their women. Men may cheat on their women because of the following reasons:- Sex: Sex is the most important reason to why men cheat on their spouses. It is possible for a man to have sex with a woman without having any emotional attachment to her whereas it is not very easy for a woman to do so. It is also said that men only need a place to have an...

Why Men Cheat

Today i read an article from a fellow blogger about relationships and why men cheat and it kept me thinking...ok that must have been her thinking from where she stood.yes i tend to agree to most things but not to everything;just to highlight on a few things; 1st she pointed out that he cheats becouse you are fat - i have seen and met men who are marely turned on with a little flesh here and there.Especially in the african settings you will find that most men that cheat leave there slim wives at home and cheat on baby hippos as she calls them so matter of size does not necerallily apply according to me. 2nd she mentioned ladies who are idle and nagging- well this i so tend to agree with her;my take is that why you keep on nagging your husband is becourse you are idle and yes you should find ways on how to keep your self busy very busy,make friends or start up a business for pits sake do something! 3rd she mentioned the wife or the spouse in this matter not having a a sense of fashion ...

Its been God all the while..

Its been a long and tough journey,it has had its fair share of dissapointments but once the Lord decides to work on his people he has to take you through the fire just as gold to become gold and a precious stone then it has to pass through the fire at most times we wounder why God is letting this things happen to someones life but at times its to make us hard enough to be able to endure whatever else might stand on our way,a way to encourage us in the near feauture,at times its a way for God to test us,at times just like Job God lets the enemy to have a hand on it to test your faith all the while but bottom line is that he loves us and he will not let us fail and that his grace is always sufficient to us. Its been a long and really discouraging journey but one thing that i have learnt along the way is that our God is a good God and all the while he has never at any point given up on me.He has continuelly and consistantly being a part and parcel of my life even when i fall he is there ...
Pretty women wonder where my secret lies. I’m not cute or built to suit a fashion model’s size But when I start to tell them, They think I’m telling lies. I say, It’s in the reach of my arms, The span of my hips, The stride of my step, The curl of my lips. I’m a woman Phenomenally. Phenomenal woman, That’s me. I walk into a room Just as cool as you please, And to a man, The fellows stand or Fall down on their knees. Then they swarm around me, A hive of honey bees. I say, It’s the fire in my eyes, And the flash of my teeth, The swing in my waist, And the joy in my feet. I’m a woman Phenomenally. Phenomenal woman, That’s me. Men themselves have wondered What they see in me. They try so much But they can’t touch My inner mystery. When I try to show them, They say they still can’t see. I say, It’s in the arch of my back, The sun of my smile, The ride of my breasts, The grace of my style. I’m a woman Phenomenall...